Mindfully Gay Guys

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Welcome to the Mindfully Gay Podcast

hosted by Jerry Buie and

John Cottrell.

Listen to these heart-to-heart conversations that transcend the ordinary. 

Guided by a simple yet impactful questions, John and Jerry unravel a tapestry of emotional dialogues. They delve courageously into the essence of what it means to take risks as a gay man, navigating through the intricate pathways of bravery, vulnerability, and the ultimate quest for self-acceptance. Their personal narratives of courageously facing fears and embracing their true selves are not just stories, but powerful testaments to the resilience and vibrancy of the gay experience.

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Critical conversations and raw honesty as we unpack and explore issues relevant to gay men.

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Gay Gifts & Blessings (Epi 10)

Explore the overlooked gifts and blessings of the gay and queer community, as John, Jerry, and Nick share their personal stories of triumph and the powerful, unique ways the queer world shapes who we are. They discuss how, as members of the queer community, we have the freedom to forge our own paths, set our own rules, and live lives unscripted by heteronormative expectations.

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Physical, Mental, & Spiritual Health & Fitness (Epi 9, Pt 1-3)

Dive deeper with the enlightening 3 part series on Physical, Mental and Spiritual fitness in the gay community. In this compelling series, our hosts John, Nick, and Jerry turn their attention to the intricacies of physical, mental and spiritual health and the unique challenges faced by gay men.

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What Happens at a Mindfully Gay Retreat? (Epi 8)

Special Guest COLE from Maverick Men.

In this enlightening episode of The Mindfully Gay Podcast, hosts Jerry, Nick, and John are joined by special guest Cole, who poses an intriguing question: “What happens at a Mindfully Gay Retreat?” Together, they delve into a detailed explanation of the transformative experiences that await attendees of these retreats.

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Physical, Mental, & Spiritual Health & Fitness (Epi 9, Pt 1-3)

Dive deeper with the enlightening 3 part series on Physical, Mental and Spiritual fitness in the gay community. In this compelling series, our hosts John, Nick, and Jerry turn their attention to the intricacies of physical, mental and spiritual health and the unique challenges faced by gay men.

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What Happens at a Mindfully Gay Retreat? (Epi 8)

Special Guest COLE from Maverick Men.

In this enlightening episode of The Mindfully Gay Podcast, hosts Jerry, Nick, and John are joined by special guest Cole, who poses an intriguing question: “What happens at a Mindfully Gay Retreat?” Together, they delve into a detailed explanation of the transformative experiences that await attendees of these retreats.

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Sex, Sensuality, and Healing: Navigating Gay Intimacy (Epi 7, Pt 1 and 2)

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In the latest episode of "Mindfully Gay," hosts Jerry Buie, John Cottrell, and Nick Walton embark on a candid exploration of sex, sexuality, and sensuality within the gay community. Delving into the complexities of these concepts, the hosts uncover the nuances and challenges faced by gay men in navigating intimacy.

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Rooted in Tradition with guest Ruben Orellana (Paco/Shaman from Peru)

Embark on a captivating journey with us in the latest episode of The Mindfully Gay Podcast, as we welcome a very special guest, Ruben Orellana, all the way from Cusco, Peru. Ruben is not only an accomplished archaeologist but also a revered healer, deeply rooted in the traditions and plant medicines of Peru. This episode promises to be an enlightening exploration of ancient wisdom and the unique power within the gay, trans, bi, and queer communities to act as healers in today's world.

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Special Guest Ruben Orellana

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Feeling Edged Out (Epi 5)

Join us for an insightful and thought-provoking episode of The Mindfully Gay Podcast, titled 'Feeling Edged Out.' In this deeply engaging conversation, hosts Jerry, John, and Nick tackle a crucial question: what aspects of the gay community concern you or sometimes make you feel marginalized? This episode is not just a discussion; it's a journey through the complex landscapes of internal homophobia, social acceptance, and the often challenging road to self-acceptance. 

Our hosts delve into the importance of authenticity, sharing their personal experiences and the struggles they've faced in finding and embracing their true selves. They explore the various ways in which we can feel pushed to the edges within our own community and the impact this has on our sense of belonging and identity. 

More importantly, 'Feeling Edged Out' sheds light on strategies for breaking free from old narratives that no longer serve us, paving the way for radical self-acceptance. This episode is a call to action for anyone seeking to understand their place within the gay community better and for those yearning to step into a more authentic, self-accepting version of themselves.

Walk The Talk (Epi. 4)

Step into the world of inspiration and personal growth with the latest episode of the Mindfully Gay Podcast, titled 'Walk The Talk'. Join hosts Nick, Jerry, and John as they engage in a deeply personal and enlightening round table discussion. In this episode, they open up about their roles in the community, sharing insights into their careers and their impactful work with others. More than just a conversation, this episode reveals how the hosts apply their own teaching and coaching expertise to navigate their personal journeys. Whether you're looking for motivation, self-improvement tips, or simply a heartfelt discussion, this episode has it all. Tune in to 'Walk The Talk' on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, or wherever you love to listen to your favorite podcasts. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking journey with the Mindfully Gay team!

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Prepare to be moved by the next installment of 'Mindfully Gay’ in 'Unveiling Our Truths: The Coming Out Stories of Mindfully Gay.' After hearing the heartfelt stories of John and Nick in Part 1, it's now time to listen to Jerry's deeply personal journey. Join us as Jerry opens up about his own coming out experience, sharing the emotional rollercoaster of challenges, triumphs, and moments of profound clarity. This episode isn't just a narrative; it's a celebration of self-acceptance and the power of vulnerability. Jerry's story adds another layer to the rich tapestry of our diverse paths towards embracing our true identities. Tune in to 'Mindfully Gay' for an episode filled with honesty, empathy, and a connection to the experiences that shape us. Be part of this journey of courage, self-discovery, and acceptance. Don't miss this inspiring continuation of our coming out stories.

Unveiling Our Truths: The Coming Out Stories of Mindfully Gay Epi 3, Part 2

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Unveiling Our Truths: The Coming Out Stories of Mindfully Gay (Epi 3, Pt 1)

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In this deeply personal episode of 'Mindfully Gay,' hosts Nick Walton, John Cottrell, and Jerry Buie invite listeners into one of the most intimate chapters of their lives - their coming out stories. Each host shares his unique journey, painting a vivid picture of the emotions, challenges, and triumphs encountered along the way. This episode is not just about the act of coming out; it's a celebration of self-acceptance, the strength found in vulnerability, and the diverse paths to embracing one's true identity.

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“Embrace Risks”

January 19 and January 26 airs Episode 2 (2 parts). As we deepen our connections and discussions with the Mindfully Gay Podcast

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“What Is Queer Spirit?”

Listen to our Premiere Episode of The Mindfully Gay Podcast.

Unleashing the Power of Ceremony.

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Unlocking the Power of Ancestral Wisdom.

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