Game Nights, Movie Nights, Retreats, Book Clubs, Shamanic Offerings, Discussion Groups…..
Stay tuned for an ever evolving calendar of events.
Upcoming Events
Mindfully Gay Enjoys the Blessings of Spring with a Hike
Spring Time Hike at the Draper Suspension Bridge
Join us for an easy-to-moderate spring hike at the Draper Suspension Bridge — a gentle, scenic walk perfect for soaking up sunshine and spending time together in community. This is an inclusive, welcoming outing for gay men of all backgrounds and fitness levels. Bring a friend or come solo to meet others.
Quick details
Date: April 12, 2026 at Noon
Meeting time: Noon
Meeting place: 1773 Hidden Valley Club Drive, Sandy UT (Will caravan to trailhead a short drive from my house)
Distance & difficulty: Approximately 2–4 miles round trip, easy to moderate terrain with some gentle inclines
Duration: About 1.5–2.5 hours depending on pace and stops
Cost: Free (donations welcome to support future events)
What to expect
Opportunities for gentle conversation, mindful walking, and short rests for photos or quiet reflection
A relaxed pace to accommodate varying fitness levels and social needs
What to bring
Comfortable walking shoes or light hiking boots
Water bottle and a small snack
Weather-appropriate layers (spring weather can shift quickly)
Sunscreen and sunglasses for sunny stretches
A small backpack to carry essentials
Accessibility & safety
Trail has some uneven surfaces and short inclines; accessible for many but not wheelchair accessible
We’ll follow local park rules and practice Leave No Trace
Community guidelines
Be present and supportive — we’re here to build connection, not to pressure anyone.
How to join
RSVP requested
Come ready to enjoy spring, simple conversation, and the steady rhythm of walking together. We look forward to seeing you.
It’s Spring Time!
Mindfully Gay Movie Night: Friday the 13th
What better way to celebrate Friday the 13th than to share popcorn and a scream with Friday the 13th Movie Night.
Join us for an evening of classic horror, cozy community, and gentle reflection. Whether you’re a die-hard fan of Camp Crystal Lake or new to the mythos, we’ll gather to watch the original 1980 slasher.
Details:
What: Friday the 13th Movie Night — screening of Friday the 13th (1980).
Who: Gay men seeking community, comfort, and conversation
Where: 1773 Hidden Valley Club Drive, Sandy UT (We have space for Approximately 12 guys)
When: Friday the 13th — Gathering around 6 PM, Movie starting around 7 PM
Cost: Donations appreciated
What to bring:
Snacks and a drink (popcorn will be provided)
A comfortable seat and a blanket
Guidelines for the night:
Content triggers: This film contains violence and tense scenes.
How to RSVP: RSVP to reserve your spot
Celebrate the uncanny and the communal. Bring your popcorn, your nerves, and your curiosity.
Bowling Afternoon: Roll, Connect, and Play
Bowling Afternoon: Roll, Connect, and Play
Why come?
Fun with purpose: Bowl, laugh, and build real connections in a warm, judgment-free space for gay men.
Low-pressure: Team up or come solo — inclusive lanes and mindful mixers.
Guided moments: Spark meaningful conversation.
All levels welcome: Focus on shared experience, not scores.
Includes
Reserved lanes, shoe rental, two games
Who should come
Gay men seeking low-stakes friendship, newcomers, or anyone wanting a fun night.
Details
Date/time: January 31, 2026 with games starting at 4 PM for approximately 2 hours
Location: All Star Bowling in Draper
Price: Approximately $20 (includes games and shoes)
Small group to maximize connection (Renting two lanes with 6 participants for each lane)
Reserve your lane — bring a friend or come solo and leave with new ones. Roll with us.
Sweat Lodge Ceremony for Gay, Bi and Transgender Men’s
Be Part of the Magic:
Bring Gay, Bi and Transgender Men together and let our prayers be our magic to the world!
Pumpkin Palooza: Carve, Roast, and Scream
Join us for a thrilling evening at Pumpkin Palooza, where we invite you to bring your own pumpkin to carve, roast some delicious pumpkin seeds, and settle in for a spine-chilling movie under the stars.
Ghoulish Dinner and Spooky Haunted House
Ghoulish Dinner and Spooky Haunted House
Ghoulish Dinner and Spooky Haunted House
Join us for an evening of connection and thrills as we gather at The Other Place Restaurant for dinner and conversation. Afterward, we'll head together to the Nightmare on 13th Haunted House for a chilling adventure. This event offers a unique opportunity to bond in a relaxed setting before sharing an exciting and spooky experience. We look forward to seeing you there.
We are asking for RVSP to be in place by October 10, 2026 so we can prepare the restaurant and perhaps find group discount with Haunted House. Dinner and Haunted House is at your own exspense. If I can secure group discount you can reimburse Jerry for your tickets.
The Other Place Restaurant
Join us at 6:30 PM at The Other Place Restaurant for an evening of relaxed conversation and connection. Whether you’re new or just curious, this is a welcoming space to meet others in a friendly atmosphere. Please RSVP so we can prepare for our group. Each guest will be responsible for paying for their own meal.
Location: 469 East 300 South, SLC, UT 84111
Nightmare on 13th Haunted House
Join us for a thrilling Halloween night! After dinner, we’ll head to Nightmare on 13th for an unforgettable fright. I’m guessing we will seek to confirm a 8 PM time slot. We’re organizing group reservations and negotiating discounts, so please RSVP by October 10. If I pre-purchase tickets, your RSVP will confirm your spot. Don’t miss out—reserve your place today!
Location: 320 W 1300 S, Salt Lake City, UT 84115
Drop the Mask. Embrace the Magic. Be Seen, Heard, and Held.
Welcome to our transformative retreat for Gay Men! This gathering is designed to create a space where we can come together, build a supportive community, and celebrate our diversity and unique stories.
Building Community: A Retreat for Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Men.
Welcome to our transformative retreat for Gay Men! This gathering is designed to create a space where we can come together, build a supportive community, and celebrate our diversity and unique stories.
Sweat Lodge Ceremony for Gay, Bi and Transgender Men’s
Be Part of the Magic:
Bring Gay, Bi and Transgender Men together and let our prayers be our magic to the world!
Peruvian Shaman Healing Circles (Copy)
Peruvian Shaman Rubén Orellana will be in Salt Lake City February 14 and 15 and 21 and 22 to hold sacred circle and ceremony.
Peruvian Shaman Healing Circles
Peruvian Shaman Rubén Orellana will be in Salt Lake City February 14 and 15 and 21 and 22 to hold sacred circle and ceremony.
Meditation & Restore
John Cottrell will teach you some Pranayama (breath work) techniques, Candle Gazing, Vipassana Meditation (Mindful Meditation), and Music Meditation.
Peruvian Shaman Healing Circles
Peruvian Shaman Rubén Orellana will be in Salt Lake City February 14 and 15 and 21 and 22 to hold sacred circle and ceremony.
Peruvian Shaman Healing Circles
Peruvian Shaman Rubén Orellana will be in Salt Lake City February 14 and 15 and 21 and 22 to hold sacred circle and ceremony.
“Wicked” Movie Night
It might be time to see “Wicked” (again!) Think it will win Best Picture at the Oscars? Come watch this cinematic phenomenon!
Heart Circle and Sacred Pipe Ceremony
Come together in brotherhood as we share, witness and celebrate our stories together as a community.
Gay, Bi and Transgender Men’s Sweat Lodge Ceremony
Be Part of the Magic:
Bring Gay, Bi and Transgender Men together and let our prayers be our magic to the world!
Heart Circle and Sacred Pipe Ceremony
Come together in brotherhood as we share, witness and celebrate our stories together as a community.
Fall 2024: Shamanic Journey to Peru: Exploring the Magic of the Plants.
Shamanic Journey to Peru: Exploring the Magic of the Plants.
In Honor of National Coming Out Day: A Day of Ritual and Celebration in the Coming Out Journey
In honor of National Coming Out Day: A Day of Ritual and Celebration in our Coming Out Journey’s
Intro to Meditation
John Cottrell will teach you some Pranayama (breath work) techniques, Candle Gazing, Vipassana Meditation (Mindful Meditation), and Music Meditation.
Ice Cream Social & Outdoor Movie Night
Mindfully Gay is hosting an Ice Cream Social on Saturday, August 10th from 6pm-10pm. Cool off with some delicious homemade ice cream! Feel free to bring your favorite (store bought is great, too) as well as some toppings. We are also hosting an outdoor theater/movie TBD
Hang out for some delicious homemade ice cream, friendly guys and a great movie! Bring lawn chairs, blankets and prepare for a fun night!
Intro to Meditation
John Cottrell will teach you some Pranayama (breath work) techniques, Candle Gazing, Vipassana Meditation (Mindful Meditation), and Music Meditation.
Lake Blanch Trail Hike/Tobacco Ceremony
Mindfully Gay Guys will be hiking Lake Blanch! Join us!
Intro to Meditation
John Cottrell will teach you some Pranayama (breath work) techniques, Candle Gazing, Vipassana Meditation (Mindful Meditation), and Music Meditation.
Bunz and Gunz and Corn Hole (Toss)
All levels of experience are welcome. This is a 30 minute,
30 second on 30 second off Tabata style workout. We will stay in a low to moderate intensity range which helps to condition your metabolism to burn fat for fuel.

